Soc,
I have had the same problem. I used to be running 98SE and used 3D glasses with stereo drivers form Wicked 3D, but I can't find anything about them any more either. I have recently changed over to 2k and am looking for the same thing. If I recall correctly there are supposed to be some nVidia drivers that support 3D and have those options available. I haven't tried them yet, but if you have any luck let me know.